Solicited Advice

Solicited advice is a weekly column where an underqualified anonymous guru answers the questions you want answered. This won’t include the stock-standard, sugar-coated advice you’re used to hearing – we’re talking about the truths that are REALLY on your mind. 

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How can I be an ally?

In my opinion, being an ally is just listening when you're asked to and asking questions when you're unsure. If you consume Queer culture on the regular, it's your responsibility to also educate yourself on the community it's representing

What should I do if my friends keep accidentally misgendering me?

If your friend keeps 'accidentally' misgendering you it's time to ask them for a private chat. If they confess, they aren't comfortable with your pronouns it's time to axe them for good.

Top or bottom x

Being a bottom is superior, lying there doing nothing is actually ideal. But if you've been bottom then whole time in your relationship, ask if they want something different. Being a top isn't too complicated, just a bit more work. Good luck and God Speed.